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THE SECRET OF THE SAUCE: BUILDING THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE, BIT BY BIT
The start of a new year always seems like a great time to make some changes in our life. A fresh, unmarked calendar awaits, and for many of us, January 1st brings the intention to fill it with good stuff. Whether we’re eating healthier, exercising more, swearing less, or generally communicating better, we’ve got every intention of doing The Thing, whatever it is.
But after a certain amount of time, it seems like The Thing, whatever it was, didn’t stick.
It turns out there’s a lot more to forming a new habit than just doing it. But wait… it’s actually nothing more than just doing it. Because the change that sticks, where the change is really cemented into habit, happens in your brain… in your physiology.
It’s pretty much up to you to just hang on while it happens.
YOUR OWN SIGNATURE COCKTAIL
Your secret sauce is found in the things you do every day, quite literally.
You may have heard it said that your body will take the shape of whatever you do to it most often. So if you exercise a lot, you probably look fit. If you skip leg day all the time, that too is probably apparent. Smokers look like smokers. Sun worshipers, they look exactly like that. Michael Phelps has a swimmer’s…